Category Archives: Love

awakening…

a·wak·en·ing əˈwāk(ə)niNG/ adjective coming into existence or awareness. “her awakening desire” it takes an awakening and a facing of the truth to make a change..IF you don’t want to, you won’t. IF you do, you can and you will. IT … Continue reading

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SNACK Time…

got to love my hub……..when we started back on this journey of mine, he loaded me up with things to eat…..you see, he knows that eating is the way to lose weight..less calories, less junk etc….anyhow……a snack is a wonderful … Continue reading

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Some Truths…Last my FAVE

here are some truths                                                                 

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Start…HOW to do it…

it is pretty simple…..YOU START you have to get in a mindset. you have to hit your point where you had ENOUGH during the last 2 or 3 weeks, i have been very depressed and yes, as food helps, i … Continue reading

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Finding peace within

You will find peace not by trying to escape your problems, but by confronting them courageously and head on. You will find peace not in denial, but in victory and acceptance. Never in your life try to destroy me, Understand … Continue reading

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get off the pity party

This is about excuses. Please take a moment to watch this 6 min video– (some swear words ) I mean clear your thoughts and really listening to this message. IT is powerful. DID it hit you directly as it did … Continue reading

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walking with bad knees at chapel hill

last night we went to the dean dome for a basketball game..it was cloudy and windy and i woke up with my knees hurting more than normal..i was dreading to my beloved game due to my knees.. i texted with … Continue reading

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i am saying good bye..

good morning ..thank you for reading this if you do.. today..i begin again..i was going to say start but today, i asked my hub for help and to be my support unit..i wrote him an email last night as i … Continue reading

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We need to let go of the past..

Had some issues of late and found this wonderful article and wanted to share it with you. http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2014/07/22/learning-to-let-go-of-past-hurts-5-ways-to-move-on/   5 Ways to Let Go of Past Hurts The only way you can accept new joy and happiness into your life … Continue reading

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Things people say

i had a person tell me this yesterday…thought i would share. i was saying i was this and i am that and really just dissing myself. and this person, said to me if i had your hair if i had … Continue reading

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