Category Archives: insecure

I am struggling

I am not doing well and it is not a secret. My WLS of choice works except the only problem is that I do not work. I overeat way to many calories I drink way to many calories and I … Continue reading

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i am saying good bye..

good morning ..thank you for reading this if you do.. today..i begin again..i was going to say start but today, i asked my hub for help and to be my support unit..i wrote him an email last night as i … Continue reading

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We need to let go of the past..

Had some issues of late and found this wonderful article and wanted to share it with you. http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2014/07/22/learning-to-let-go-of-past-hurts-5-ways-to-move-on/   5 Ways to Let Go of Past Hurts The only way you can accept new joy and happiness into your life … Continue reading

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being fat doesnt make you bad

today is the 2nd day that i have felt (good)…mentally and physically. so what if i am over what i want to weigh..does this make me a horrible person? no, it just shows that i chose to overeat way to … Continue reading

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ms popular

the sun is out…and i am not out in it..how are you doing today?? work is so so..bout like always..sometimes i just wish the phone would stop ringing and my emails would stop but its kinda fun being ms popular … Continue reading

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6 days and want power

yes it has been 6 days since i had my fill with my dr. i (think) there is a difference but i am also being very careful with my eating and the amount DUE to my situation i described before. … Continue reading

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Let’s see if anyone will read this

Dear person reading this, I hope your day has been going well, if not, I hope it gets better. You are an amazing person who will succeed in weight loss or better health  as both are great things so keep … Continue reading

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head hunger

head hunger is real… if you think you are hungry, drink something and see if that helps…but if you are really/truly hungry, eat i am on soft foods today after my fill on thursday…and i am def dealing again with … Continue reading

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xray

thursday…i am going to my lap band dr and get a fluro xray on my band i have been very very concerned that i damaged it by over eating and yes for about a year, i have (ashamed but it … Continue reading

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Why can’t we treat ourselves better?

Ask yourself, would you let a friend down as much as you do yourself? I know you know that (we) made those mistakes maybe once or twice And by once or twice but in reality I mean maybe a couple … Continue reading

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