Category Archives: insecure

Am I a failure?

You failed. Congratulations, you’re human. We’ve all failed at something. And now that you know what you’ve done wrong you know how to avoid it in the future and you know what you need to do now to get back … Continue reading

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awakening…

a·wak·en·ing əˈwāk(ə)niNG/ adjective coming into existence or awareness. “her awakening desire” it takes an awakening and a facing of the truth to make a change..IF you don’t want to, you won’t. IF you do, you can and you will. IT … Continue reading

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SNACK Time…

got to love my hub……..when we started back on this journey of mine, he loaded me up with things to eat…..you see, he knows that eating is the way to lose weight..less calories, less junk etc….anyhow……a snack is a wonderful … Continue reading

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Start…HOW to do it…

it is pretty simple…..YOU START you have to get in a mindset. you have to hit your point where you had ENOUGH during the last 2 or 3 weeks, i have been very depressed and yes, as food helps, i … Continue reading

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I am back…..please read

So where have I been? So much to tell and let you know what I am doing and where I am. Well here is the shortened version. Summer 2015-April 22nd 2018 Let myself overeat and gain just about all the … Continue reading

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what went wrong….my acknowledgement

this is easy…..it was ME that went wrong my weight loss surgery of choice was the lap band with plication (similar to sleeve). IT WORKS and it worked for me until I decided to give up. IT was me……NOT my … Continue reading

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Today…..I begin again

Today, I begin again.

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Finding peace within

You will find peace not by trying to escape your problems, but by confronting them courageously and head on. You will find peace not in denial, but in victory and acceptance. Never in your life try to destroy me, Understand … Continue reading

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Five

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walking with bad knees at chapel hill

last night we went to the dean dome for a basketball game..it was cloudy and windy and i woke up with my knees hurting more than normal..i was dreading to my beloved game due to my knees.. i texted with … Continue reading

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