Category Archives: habits

Am I a failure?

You failed. Congratulations, you’re human. We’ve all failed at something. And now that you know what you’ve done wrong you know how to avoid it in the future and you know what you need to do now to get back … Continue reading

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fess up time…

come on, how was your weekend? how did you do? there is no judgement, only concern. did you over do it on one meal and go what the hell and pig out the rest of the day because you figured … Continue reading

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awakening…

a·wak·en·ing əˈwāk(ə)niNG/ adjective coming into existence or awareness. “her awakening desire” it takes an awakening and a facing of the truth to make a change..IF you don’t want to, you won’t. IF you do, you can and you will. IT … Continue reading

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CAN’T DO IT ANYMORE?

Make peace with with your life. Show yourself compassion, forgiveness and unconditional love. You have the strength to turn this around. Take a moment. Get it together (your mindset/your plan) Then, get on with it.   NOTE TO ME AND … Continue reading

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Dinner

well here is my din din….. i have a pan fried egg and also a dab of home made quac and my burger patty that was cooked on the grill….it is about 4 or 5 oz and on top a … Continue reading

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SNACK Time…

got to love my hub……..when we started back on this journey of mine, he loaded me up with things to eat…..you see, he knows that eating is the way to lose weight..less calories, less junk etc….anyhow……a snack is a wonderful … Continue reading

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Some Truths…Last my FAVE

here are some truths                                                                 

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Start…HOW to do it…

it is pretty simple…..YOU START you have to get in a mindset. you have to hit your point where you had ENOUGH during the last 2 or 3 weeks, i have been very depressed and yes, as food helps, i … Continue reading

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Whose not eating snacks? ME….

is anyone there? well, things are going GREAT i am def focusing on my eating and what i am eating when i say focus on my eating, i am making sure i enjoy it i am tasting it..savoring the flavors … Continue reading

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Change…

  I truly believe this to be true. I am only 2 weeks in and back from my WLS vacay and my mindset has changed 100%. I am no longer tempted NOR am I wondering can I do this. I … Continue reading

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