Category Archives: gaining weight

Am I a failure?

You failed. Congratulations, you’re human. We’ve all failed at something. And now that you know what you’ve done wrong you know how to avoid it in the future and you know what you need to do now to get back … Continue reading

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fess up time…

come on, how was your weekend? how did you do? there is no judgement, only concern. did you over do it on one meal and go what the hell and pig out the rest of the day because you figured … Continue reading

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awakening…

a·wak·en·ing əˈwāk(ə)niNG/ adjective coming into existence or awareness. “her awakening desire” it takes an awakening and a facing of the truth to make a change..IF you don’t want to, you won’t. IF you do, you can and you will. IT … Continue reading

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CAN’T DO IT ANYMORE?

Make peace with with your life. Show yourself compassion, forgiveness and unconditional love. You have the strength to turn this around. Take a moment. Get it together (your mindset/your plan) Then, get on with it.   NOTE TO ME AND … Continue reading

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SNACK Time…

got to love my hub……..when we started back on this journey of mine, he loaded me up with things to eat…..you see, he knows that eating is the way to lose weight..less calories, less junk etc….anyhow……a snack is a wonderful … Continue reading

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Start…HOW to do it…

it is pretty simple…..YOU START you have to get in a mindset. you have to hit your point where you had ENOUGH during the last 2 or 3 weeks, i have been very depressed and yes, as food helps, i … Continue reading

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I am back…..please read

So where have I been? So much to tell and let you know what I am doing and where I am. Well here is the shortened version. Summer 2015-April 22nd 2018 Let myself overeat and gain just about all the … Continue reading

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Hey to whomever reads this. Today is mindset day.

hello, anyone? I think our mindset must be strong to want to lose weight. I find if I don’t believe in myself enough, I won’t ever do it. I have to do this for me. I cannot get my hub … Continue reading

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Day 3…..anyone here ??

I again apologize for dropping out of sight. I hope you can forgive me. So on day 3 of me trying to get back into the mindset of being a WLS patient who is trying to get healthy, I am … Continue reading

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what went wrong….my acknowledgement

this is easy…..it was ME that went wrong my weight loss surgery of choice was the lap band with plication (similar to sleeve). IT WORKS and it worked for me until I decided to give up. IT was me……NOT my … Continue reading

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