Category Archives: failure

The problem is, you feel sorry for yourself…

I am borrowing this wonderful Facebook post from David Douglas. He was speaking to me today. Is it reaching you? Let’s talk about it… The problem is, you feel sorry for yourself–even when you have positive people in your life … Continue reading

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Am I a failure?

You failed. Congratulations, you’re human. We’ve all failed at something. And now that you know what you’ve done wrong you know how to avoid it in the future and you know what you need to do now to get back … Continue reading

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fess up time…

come on, how was your weekend? how did you do? there is no judgement, only concern. did you over do it on one meal and go what the hell and pig out the rest of the day because you figured … Continue reading

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awakening…

a·wak·en·ing əˈwāk(ə)niNG/ adjective coming into existence or awareness. “her awakening desire” it takes an awakening and a facing of the truth to make a change..IF you don’t want to, you won’t. IF you do, you can and you will. IT … Continue reading

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CAN’T DO IT ANYMORE?

Make peace with with your life. Show yourself compassion, forgiveness and unconditional love. You have the strength to turn this around. Take a moment. Get it together (your mindset/your plan) Then, get on with it.   NOTE TO ME AND … Continue reading

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Dinner

well here is my din din….. i have a pan fried egg and also a dab of home made quac and my burger patty that was cooked on the grill….it is about 4 or 5 oz and on top a … Continue reading

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Start…HOW to do it…

it is pretty simple…..YOU START you have to get in a mindset. you have to hit your point where you had ENOUGH during the last 2 or 3 weeks, i have been very depressed and yes, as food helps, i … Continue reading

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I am back…..please read

So where have I been? So much to tell and let you know what I am doing and where I am. Well here is the shortened version. Summer 2015-April 22nd 2018 Let myself overeat and gain just about all the … Continue reading

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Weight of it all

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So, how was it?

My first big weekend back on the track and back from (vacation) so to speak. Yes I was nervous…..would I say screw it and eat whatever OR would I hang in there and do the best I can/could. Mind you … Continue reading

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