This is for you..
We all have baggage, right? But we don’t have to give that baggage to someone new in our lives and expect them to lug it around for us.
We have to continually work on ourselves and keep our shit in check so that we don’t repeat negative behaviors and patterns.
It’s not fair to others.
They are NOT the ones who hurt us. We owe it to them to check our issues at the door and if they come up, we deal with it ourselves.
If you’re ugly to someone over your own shit, own it and apologize. If they want to help you, let them but don’t bleed on them in the process.
Hang in there ok.