well, i was told that i am approaching my 3 yr band-versary and that i failed the surgery..yes, that is what i was told..and i was like…OK..
its true, i am not at goal and i also am unhappily carrying about 20 pounds of skin on my stomach/thighs/upper arms also and so i am not sure what my (goal weight) should be..i know i would kill my own kin to weigh 100 pounds but i know that will never ever happen. i would be happy to be at about 150..
BUT, its about basics
i am making no excuses..i am not doing as well as i should
and that is my fault. NOT the lap band..i am eating more of the
wrong things, not exercising/moving and not really doing anything
to help myself…
maybe this person is right, i have failed
but i am better off now then i was when i had surgery
so maybe i am not a failure after all.