I am

Today, use the two most powerful words, I AM

How about, I AM receiving every good thing.

I AM happy.

I AM abundant.

I AM healthy.

I AM love.

I AM always on time.

I AM filled with energy every single day.

You are.

#Iam #YOUare

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Negative vibes

This is something that I have to remind myself of on a regular basis.

I know that I talk a LOT about being positive and not letting the energy vampires suck your energy & joy out of your life and to not let them affect how you act towards anyone.

This doesn’t mean that I’m not affected, or that I, too, don’t get mad.

I’ve said it MANY times, when I make my positive posts about whatever, I’m speaking to myself mainly.

I work on these things DAILY. TRUST ME!!!

Sometimes I have that moment where I realize that I’m doing exactly what it is I’m bitching or preaching about…

Have a great day and don’t let that low-vibin’, sketchy-ass energy penetrate thy aura.

#negative #badVibes #positive

#happy #Nodrama

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Face Time

You post too many selfies.
Heck yes, I do! I spent most of my life wishing I was someone else and avoiding the mirror because I wasn’t pretty or thin enough. So just maybe I’m making up for lost time since this woman I am becoming & am growing into who I want to be! And I want other people to know it’s possible to come from darkness and into a place of such freedom that you can’t help but want everyone to know. I’m literally beaming with the light of sober life and I’m never going to hide that.

#NC #inkedgirls #UNC #kindness
#ridingharley #tattoosleeve
#harleylife #werideharleys #longfingernails #coloredhairdontcare #soberlife #peacefulmindpeacefullife

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Friday Night Pep Talk

You have to start somewhere, and it won’t be perfect at first, but you have to start and keep at it 🖤

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Super Bowl note

HELLO EVERYONE and happy Sunday

Just wanted to take a moment to reach out and thank all of you following my Page.
Over the past years, many of you have chose to read my drama and it has meant so very much.

I was in an extremely horrible and lonely space and I wanted to die.

It was here, that my journey towards self-acceptance started.
It was you, that understood where I was in life and what I was feeling.
It was you, who encouraged me to walk through it, promising that I would get to the other side of I just hang in there.

And I try.

Not every day has been fun. But I’m still here…grateful to be alive today.

So I still post here as often as I can, as an effort to give it back and trying to help others who may be struggling like me.

For those of you who have been here awhile, you know that often I post stuff with humor, but I also try to share my thoughts.

However you look at these posts, please know that I simply want you all to realize that you are not alone through YOUR journey to the ‘your side.’


Life IS worth living to the best of your ability.


#positive #Superbowl #believe #try #support

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Just be YOU

Often we come across people and judge them based on their appearance; and just as often we are wrong.

Life should teach us that appearance can not tell the true nature of an individual. There are those who intentionally pretend to be something that they aren’t and there are those who are simply mistaken for who they aren’t.

As you become more mature you learn the importance of inner beauty.

If you base your self-worth on what everyone else sees and thinks of you, you hand all your power over to other people and become dependent on a source outside of yourself for validation.

Then you wind up chasing after something you have no control over, and should that something suddenly place its focus somewhere else, or change its mind and decide you’re no longer very interesting, you end up with a full-blown identity crisis.

It took me a long time to find ME and to NOT care what anyone thinks…. regardless of what others think of you. .. BE YOU.. FIND YOURSELF..

(if I can do it ANYONE can) and be grateful and thankful every single day that you wake up..

Believe in yourself 🖤

#positive #believe #Beyou

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Saturday life sermon

Take it from someone who has been through some BS in the 50 odd years I’ve been riding this roller coaster we call life.

Many times in my life, starting with my childhood, I could have let what others did to me dictate how I treated others, as well as how I treated myself. Instead, I chose to let those things make me a better person…….a better person than those that chose to hurt me. I broke the cycle.

I really owe those that hurt me, in a twisted kind of way. They showed me how NOT to act.

And I know that I failed myself, and hurt others, too, along the way. To those people, I can’t say that I am sorry enough.

But I truly believe that it’s helped me to be who I am today, and be able to be this happy person, who tries (PLEASE know that I at least try) to spread that joy to the world.

Always be kind okay.

Be good to others, and to yourself. Be the person who breaks the cycle…..the person that you needed when you were hurting.

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